Keeping Up with Tiny Titan: Small Super Hero-- Starting Over Again

Saturday, March 23, 2013

Small Super Hero-- Starting Over Again

Some people may think we are crazy. We managed to raise our biological 6 which includes a very medically complex Becca and our 5 adopted sibling set who all were affected by various levels of Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders and the effects of complex trauma from abuse and neglect.

But we started all over again l8 months ago, with the addition of a Little Guy with Full Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and an underlying unknown genetic disorder. His parents rights now have been terminated.

I have not been able to post as he has been in foster care with us. We filed his adoption paperwork with the courts here and our GOTTCHA Day for Little Guy is set for April 16.

I will be writing about our next Tiny Titan, who has stolen our hearts and is blowing people away with his progress.

More to come......

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In 1989 our youngest daughter Becca was born with a rare genetic disorder, (Noonan Syndrome) and while she struggled to survive, our family tumbled into poverty. With Six children we had to live below the poverty line to qualify for help to cover her million dollars in medical bills.

Becca never gave up and neither did we.

When my husband lost his job due to Becca's insurance issues, he returned to school. It is never too late to change careers. Two years of undergraduate coursework and four years of medical school were supported by delivering thousands newspapers and thrifty living...and prayer.

In the spirit of giving back we went on to adopt five siblings separated in foster care. Leaving our home of twenty years, two families who both knew adversity moved onto the Hope of a new life 600 miles away to begin the Journey through Residency and becoming a New Family. Along the way we soon discovered that our newest children would be diagnosed with Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders and challenges from their histories of abuse and neglect. My strength would be tested, my advocacy skills honed to help my children with special needs. All the while bargain hunting and struggling to feed our family of thirteen on residency pay and prayer.

Our Tiny Titan showed us the gift of today and to never, ever give up. Our family CHOSE to not become a statistic of families facing catastrophic illness. We learned to live frugally, stretch a dollar, and find happiness with being together. I learned to navigate the complex world of advocating and finding help for my children with special needs. Instead of feeling hopeless, we found strength in turning the negatives into the positives.

My children are now all nearly grown, our family no longer financially struggles. My job is never dull, the kids keep me busy, there is always a battle or some barrier to cross to help my children. My husband is now a surgeon, my children make me proud as they live their lives. I have a new gift the enjoyment of being a grandmother.

With my book now published, the kids grown, I have a new opportunity... To write again... and share in the special needs world and take care of our newest addition to the family, McKellan Edward Yurcek was offically adopted April 16, 2013.

The Journey Continues.....

Keeping Up with Tiny Titan

Saturday, March 23, 2013

Small Super Hero-- Starting Over Again

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